夫人 (2003-08-05 00:32:41) No.1

我原谅你了，下不为例。

donjuan (2003-08-05 04:50:43) No.2

One way to avoid this kind of thing, remain unattached. Just like me. You don't need to look at some one's face before making a decision. Continuing dating, but don't get prisoned. ^_^

香蕉 (2003-08-05 05:32:52) No.3

Wow, what a guy, what a guy.....

勇敢的心 (2003-08-05 07:30:20) No.4

哎！赶紧给自己整个小金库攒点私房银子吧，也省得以后动不动就跪搓衣板什么的。

不过六十余元居然能买15张CD，这个可怜的男人还是很能干的说。^v^

donjuan (2003-08-05 07:58:51) No.5

By the way, this 检讨 seems still lack of sincerity, as well as intimacy (much needed if you want to win). Maybe from the difference of eastern-western culture, I feel that a little bit more words like: "Darling, I know I was wrong this time." ... "Would you please forgive me, Sweetheart?", "Please, Sugar cake, please, do give me another chance." or "Oh, honey, please don't cry. You know I love you more than anybody (don't use "anything" here! otherwise you might lost your case.^_^) else." etc., etc, wouldn't hurt. Am I right ladies? ^_^

Jim Wang (2003-08-05 08:01:23) No.6

呵，像演戏。

Michelle (2003-08-05 12:35:37) No.7

每当有男性朋友结婚时，我们都将一个绝妙的主意无偿奉送：建议该新郎主动要求不买洗衣机，这样洗完衣服就跪搓板，既可以表现热爱劳动谦虚谨慎会过日子的良好道德风貌及生活习惯，又可以时时让老婆有被尊敬热爱的美好感觉，一举数得！

fricsayy (2003-08-05 13:22:38) No.8

哈哈，太悲惨了吧。。。别把女同胞都想的太坏！

九月飞鹰 (2003-08-05 20:21:04) No.9

勇敢的心，你整天听古典音乐，看来思想已经太落后了，现在流行的是跪主版，早就不跪洗衣板了

一份检讨 (2003-08-06 03:18:39) No.10

说是做戏不是事实。事情是确实发生过的，夫人要求我写检讨也是事实。开始写的时候有调侃心态，但写到后来确实有很深的内疚。我想这样的事情未必不在别的身上发生（当然不是说检讨，而是说关于买盘消费的争执），所以贴了出来。既然大家都觉得可笑，恳请版主删掉！务必！！！

还是Donjuan老师豁达，只可惜上船容易下船难。况且船上有船下不有的风景，所以也就罢了。

另外上面的“夫人”并非我的夫人。

勇敢的心 (2003-08-06 07:06:34) No.11

九月飞鹰：

跪主板多麻烦啊，每次还得让老婆费功夫打开机箱拆那么多螺丝钉，而且，跪坏了膝盖是小事，压坏了主板才是大事，这年头，象样的主板都得上千银子，比唱片贵多了。所以啊，还是传统好，省事！^v^

一份检讨：

很早以前，我就听说过京城里有人因为买唱片把老婆给买跑了，所以，象您这种“经历”，对已成家的朋友还是很有现实指导意义的。

其实，大家在这里开玩笑只是凑个热闹，让检讨轻松轻松而已。

另外，大家都知道那个“夫人”并非您的夫人。^v^

lulu (2003-08-06 09:14:08) No.12

我觉得一份检讨是个好丈夫。

个人的爱好比起一个真的爱你的真的为家庭付出的亲密爱人的感受来说，真是算不了什么的。

而且我相信如果一份检讨能够真正从心底体会夫人为家庭付出和打算的“苦心”，稍假时日，夫人也一定能越来越理解你，从你的角度替你着想，不会一味剥夺你从音乐中所能获得的快乐的。 *_^

XILEI (2003-08-06 09:28:38) No.13

"另外上面的“夫人”并非我的夫人" - 那是不是说您的夫人还没有原谅您呢?

唐皇这没干系的人都觉得不真诚, 我也怀疑你这东西管事不管.

不会正在 编第二份吧?

donjuan (2003-08-06 10:39:50) No.14

一份检讨: 豁达 or not, different people may have different view. But, to be frankly, from marriage to divorce happens all the time. Don't take it too seriously. I have known way too many cases like that, and some of my ex-classmates have been through it twice already! In the US, there are also many extremes, those long time singles remain single even into 40's, while young teenagers (18 and above of course) rush into marriage because the girls happen to be pregnant (getting abortion is very difficult in many areas in the US!). I have met both in person. And it's really no clear call to say one (marriage like some here just said) got to be better than the other. As I used to say, music is a life long love affair, while marriage might not be so. As Jack Lemmon once said in the movie "The Odd Couple": "Marriage come and gone, but the game must keep on." Of course he refer to the poker, but we said use music instead. Another thing need to be aware: it is NOT just a money issue only that wives are complaining about (many die-hard music lovers got divorced have no financial problem at all!), it is also about the attentions those wives got from their husbands! In the west, sex definitely is not the reason two people got married, actually, it's often the opposite. Just think about it, when two lovers sleep together without even thinking of sex, then they might be ready for marriage, because, there are other things tied them together, a common interest is one of them. If one devotes all his attentions to his music listening while not even noticing the existence of his wife, I guess it's high time to see a consoler before heading to the court. And again, the legal fees are quite high, so are the alimonies. That's why so many couples live together without a PAPER, and so many singles keep on dating for seeking of freshness and excitement. Really hard to fault them, don't you think? The ancient Chinese moral customs? They are long dead, and better left them to be so. :-)

香蕉 (2003-08-06 11:55:00) No.15

Good. Just stay as donjuan.....

多多 (2003-08-06 14:07:23) No.16

你们有没有听说买唱片买跑男朋友的事呢？这可是真事！

阿萨 (2003-08-06 14:52:37) No.17

这种事情的核心问题是：两口子是不是都喜欢古典音乐。如果只有一个人喜欢，确实比较麻烦，对方会觉得纯粹浪费。当然，这种爱好是可以培养的，真要是儒子可教，那就好说了。说实话，我运气不错，我老婆说，当初要不是看我有这些CD，也不会嫁给我。现在她已经被我调教得有点意思了。

每次我买了CD先不说价钱，先让她听，她要是觉得好，价钱也就无所谓了。CD和MD的随身听都得给她预备着，每天换着听，居然还搞上版本比较了。现在我基本上不买CD了，主要是买票看现场。看现场的热情，我老婆比我还高，变成她督促我去买票了。还老怂恿我买年票、季票，我不答应，只能保证一个月听4次现场。

titi (2003-08-08 17:24:24) No.18

请问勇敢的心，“……的说”是什么意思？最近总看到

你说： "这个可怜的男人还是很能干的说。^v^"

勇敢的心 (2003-08-08 18:46:34) No.19

Dear titi： “……的说”好象也没什么意思的说。我也是从CINA大姐那里学来的，目前我的造句水平还远远赶不上她的说。^v^

To Titi mm (2003-08-09 01:16:53) No.20

下面这个链接里（往下翻一点）有你“心兄”出神入化的“的说”造句： http://www.balletalk.com/asp/wind/topic.asge=1 好玩的说

“……的说”的意思 (2003-08-09 11:28:36) No.21

这个可怜的男人还是很能干的说

= 这个可怜的男人还是很能干的,说是。

= 说是这个可怜的男人还是很能干的。

好象也没什么意思的说

=好象也没什么意思的,说是。

=说是好象也没什么意思的。

目前我的造句水平还远远赶不上她的说

=目前我的造句水平还远远赶不上她的,说是。

=说是目前我的造句水平还远远赶不上她的。

好玩的说

=好玩的,说是。

=说是好玩的。

Michelle (2003-08-09 12:07:04) No.22

CINA姐姐可有好多经典语法呢——哼唧ing的说！

titi (2003-08-11 19:21:00) No.23

哇！感觉又回到小学的语文课。我看了“To Titi mm ”的链接，要笑死了，但还是很晕的说，看来我还是要课后消化一下，才能继续“的说”。